I need some help from some of you mothers that nursed your babies out there. I have had so much trouble with nursing, and I need advice from the mothers in my life.
First let me tell you about my nursing experience with both of my girls. Adelle would nurse for an hour at a time when I first brought her home. Then my doctor told me it was too much, so I cut back and at four months on the dot I started her on rice cereal, because she always seemed hungry. I don't think that Lilly got enough nourishment from my breast milk alone or my milk production went down because of my use of a nipple shield. With both girls I had mastitis, a yeast infection and my nipples and my areola cracked and bled.
My biggest concern at this point is the cracking. It was so bad that both of my girls spit up blood, my blood, more than once. I feel I can get through the rest of it, but the dread of nursing because it hurts so bad is something I am NOT looking forward to.
I'm really afraid that this is going to happen again, and my poor son won't get nursing experience that my girls did because I'm so done dealing with this. I'm tempted to just buy a really nice pump and do what my sister-in-law did for a year with her son, pump and then feed. (But she did it with a manual pump!) I don't want to have to do this because it sounds way time consuming.
I'm going to talk to my doctor about it, but I was hoping that I could get some advice from you lovely women who might know what I might be able to do.
Thank you so much for all your advice.